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Welcome.

I was somewhat apprehensive until I read your whole post.
I'd say not to worry about YOUr thoughts making things come true.
Being one who orders stuff on line and from magazines, etc., I have received plenty of stuff that has had to be returned or gotten a refund for. It happens all the time.
The bank thing with the b/f, it happens all the time, too. It would be something else if you did create that, but how could one go about proving it? See, it's not worth it to think like that, because then you got the guilt trip on yourself. So, avoid thinking like that, and replace those baddy thoughts with something more positive. Like, just simply hope and pray that something distracts him from living in the city. You just got lucky twice.