@Lightworker42...

I'm glad your divorce is finalized - how do you feel?! I lost 37 lbs without trying after mine - and felt like "chains" were removed.

I'm sorry TF has gone silent on you. I've dealt with that almost 2 years. It seems the more "real" things get, the more time they need to process. Every single time I've asked Tarot Girl about my TFs silence, she says "he feels pressured and still stuck - like he has nothing to offer right now & doesn't think it's fair to hold you back". So, I've (finally!) learned to be still during these times also & it helps not letting my fear get the best of me. I also remind myself that the first time he went silent a whole month & I felt so hurt, then angry, then heartbroken beyond belief. That's when I told him I couldn't take the silence anymore & defriended him on FB. That's the same day he got in an accident & he finally told me "you defriended me when I was going thru hell!" I told him "all you had to do was tell me that!"

Hang in there...Hugs to you as you go thru this, too!