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I feel to an extent, it can depend on the kind of grieving. What seems to matter to them most is the love we have for them. From my experience, tears and some sadness -they can easily cope with and understand with compassion, and it doesn't have to hold them back. In fact, the love and understanding they can come into can help them grow.
But the kind of grieving that stays deep, dark, and heavy can be upsetting for them. They want to feel our love, and are happier when we can settle more into love than endless agony and pain.
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