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Originally Posted by krisam
I am new to this but here we go anyway.
I have noticed my elder son talking to his girlfriend with the same behaviour and i pull him on it every time. A woman (and a Man) should be treated with the same respect, irrespective of what they do or where they come form.
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Yes, but people in relationships get treated in the way they
allow other people to treat them.
In that lies the culpability for your present situation.
It is not for you to check him when he does behave badly, it is for
her to do that. She teaches him the limits of what she will accept. She must set the boundaries and he will either respect them or lose her. The choice is simple.
For you the horse has bolted and it will be difficult to get it back, she still has time to close the stable door.
Demand respect or face the consequences.