hi lady raven n thankyou for that, me and my partner have been talking and we are taking things really slow to start with so there is no rush, i got a bit carried away as i have never had a long distance before and found it hard to begin with but now im back on track and i can see the benefits of it now n like nat says it makes the heart grow fonder and we have all the time in the world to get to know eachother, i wish you well with yours lady raven o.f