I''m here to learn from others and see if what they say resonate with my own experiences, not to argue about who is 'further along'. I'm not interested in who is further than who, only in what people have to say. In my very few experiences with unconditional pure love, I know it to be a very different feeling from what we normally call love, and there is no question of it being divided by condition, if it is then it is no longer pure love, but an emotion.