hi everyone n thanks for the that as i needed to hear something on the subject, i said about three hours but it took four n a half for my partner to get home cause of traffic n i just meant that we cant nip round to eachothers houses for a cuddle n hmmm well you know (wink) n its like torture sometimes as other people who see eachother a lot at the beginning and are all over eachother, we both have commitments and that means we can only see eachother once a fortnight or so but who knows maybe in the future n we are still together then maybe one of us could move to where the other one is, sounds good that, n thanks again folks, if i run into difficulty or i have another question then ill come back and ask you. many spiritual thanks n blessings one feather