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Hey cosmicwonder, I really admire your honest comments.
In my opinion, just about everyone is needy sometimes in their life so don’t think that you are on your own. I can’t see anything wrong with that either.
What I admire about you is that you actually recognise that neediness when it arises and try to take positive action to do something about it. Many people don’t even notice it within themselves, so you’re “streets ahead” as far as I’m concerned.
Regarding your friend. I personally have made the decision not to catch up with old mates/acquaintances because thru past experiences, I have mostly come away from them feeling worse than I did before I met them. Maybe because I’m the complete opposite to what I was 20/30 years ago so I don’t really have anything in common with them now, so what’s the point
You sound like a very smart guy to me, judging from the steps you have taken already, imo. Hope it all works out for you.
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