I personally think when you met someone you just get a feeling and know it's right.
To me your suggesting that you know your not quite ready and that's ok, just think with that in mind how much your willing to invest.
I really feel that when the right person comes along you will be ready and you will just know within yourself so trust yourself, listen to your body and how you are feeling as it is there to guide you and steer you in the right direction.
Best of luck with everything
