The real "flame' is our kundalini fire, that's in our internal energy system.
It's us.
The people who had the inner experience, did the emotional work and turned up to be present for someone else.
If the reality is that someone can't rise to the occasion or is unable to overcome their avoidant behaviour, then there is nothing we can do.
We let go and move on.
Realizing another person doesn't truly define us. Can't define us.
So we show up for ourselves. First.
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