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Old 03-03-2024, 04:17 AM
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Dream that my friend died a few weeks ago: she's going in for surgery on Wednesday

Hi all,

A couple of weeks ago, I had a dream that my friend died. The next day, I spent time with her and was reminded that she was having surgery this Wednesday. I found a way to tell her that I'm glad she's doing ok because I was worried about her due to the dream I had.

Back in October, about a week before my family's cat fell sick and then died, I had a dream that he was sick and dying. It all came true shortly after.

Ever since, I've been on high alert with any dreams that I have.

My question is: Do I ask her directly to consider rescheduling her surgery or is my informing her of the dream a few weeks ago enough? Like should I directly tell her of how my dream of my family's cat ended up coming true?

The thing is, I have often throughout my life had dreams that my loved ones are sick and dying. And they don't come true. But ever since my dream about my family's cat came true, I've been on high alert. I should say I thought the timing of my dream (the day before I spent time with her & her reminding me of her surgery) was interesting.

I'm worried if I ask her to reschedule and she does, that her health issues will get worse. I'm also worried if I ask her and she doesn't reschedule and she's just terrified or mad at me going into her surgery. And then I'm worried if I don't tell her and something bad happens, that I could've prevented it, lose a friend, and be wracked with guilt.

What should I do?
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