I personally think it is easier to know when you are NOT ready.
There are 2 books or 3 that aid people to have a successful relationship.
''The Five Love Languages''...fascinating by Chapman and
"Getting The Love You Want'' -by Hendriks (or Hendrix?)
Each one you only have to read 1-3 chapters to get so much out of them!
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Good luck with this. :)