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You may be an empath (more or less). Over the years I learn that is rather best not to get your psyche too much into overthinking about worry of negative energy. Is best to be aware and act accordingly as you see fit even if sometimes means just to mind your own business, rather than worry excessively that all the negative energies of others are going to leech up on you, that worry is what makes it sticky actually.
Black Obsidian at first can suck all the negative energy from you, it works rather quickly, as it feels as if you can dump anything into that 'void'. But, its reflective characteristics also brings about another of is highest qualities, it will reflect you back the reasons and nature of that negative energy it sucked from you. After a time or some time after Obsidian takes away the negative energy from you, you will feel it returning but now in the same manner, instead in a way that makes you think about the causes and train of actions and train of thoughts that lead to those problems/negative energies. Obsidian is a great teacher, if you have the guts to work with it long term it will change your life, to put it in other words, it is as that parent that may be seem a little straightforward and harsh but still loves you, but its lessons are no bull****, going straight to the core root of the issue.
Therefor the fact that you feel an intense negative feeling from them, perhaps is the Obsidian pointing some personal thing about you, your surroundings, and them.
As for Tourmaline, in my opinion it does the trick sometimes, takes negative energy and sometimes even transmutes it into positive. It can be quite useful, sure. Though Obsidian has some other properties that goes with giving you lessons as well.
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