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Nikos - I suppose it's difficult for us using our minds to make any sort of sense of it, but you do a good job!
Redchic - it was a she. I'm not sure why but I didn't think of asking her as it was intended as a supportive comment, but maybe I will.
Angelblue - That's a lovely way of looking at it. Our relationship was actually a bit complicated due to her mental health (and to some extent mine) but much better in recent years.
Rah nam - I'm curious as to how it comes across that I haven't let go? Is it because I'm feeling sad about where my mum has gone? Because I feel that in many ways I HAVE let go of the fact she has died. I don't sit around crying. I'm at peace with her passing. But it does bring up questions for me about the afterlife because my mum was such a strong presence in my life. It's great if you can let go within minutes of a death, but I strongly suspect that isn't the case for most people!
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