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I think it's important to realise that forgiveness is a result, not a path. The path is self-love. The path is reconnecting to Love again for yourself. When you are fully in Love, you will naturally let go of the resentments and grief you hold onto because that space will be filled with love and joy. This happens in a slow fashion. I would never attach myself to any aim of "forgiveness" that to me is deleterious.
I often see many people trying to put the cart before the horse. Love comes first, "forgiveness" (whatever that is) is a natural consequence of being in Love. Many religions preach "forgiveness" so that people can get away with harmful actions, I see it as manipulation and enablement, not Love.
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