I see your points. I was thinking of some case I've read or heard about (at this point can not remember) where they again and again met and each time they got even more karma to work through than before. I was thinking more that one of them could go and learn somewhere else instead of keep on poisoning the other person's lives again and again til it was ready to resolve matters, when they were in the same place.

However. I do get what you're "saying", Iamthat and Native_spirit :)