Originally Posted by linen53
After I die I really don't care how I am remembered. I am shaking the dust off of my feet and moving on.
I don't care about it either.. It's the ego that wants to be remembered and have a big name, even if it's based on good qualities. Let other people decide whom you were, how you feel about it yourself can never quite match how someone else feels anyway, so to worry or ponder about it seems a waste of time..
The best thing that can happen is that if we die we meet the new reality with open eyes and shed the old. No point being stuck in the past..