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Originally Posted by 002 Cents
It's been 10 months since I met my twin and I have grown so much... I have come to realize how excessively ego driven my relationship habits were and one by one I have to dig deep to overcome that internal hurdle that feels the need to be correct and feel validated in these little games couples play to assert dominance.
There is no dominance in this relationship. There is no enabling. Neither one of us has the power to change the other, nor do we try. He is the mirror into all the damage within myself and I to him. Time and time again we struggle and time and time again we overcome, persever and continue to choose eachother. The ultimate hurdle will be opening up fully to one another as our biggest fear is being vulnerable. Unfortunately the tools he uses to protect himself end up causing me to put up walls to protect myself. A cycle that has nearly ended our relationship more than once.
But there is no replacement for what we've found in eachother... And that gravity between us just keeps us tearing down eachothers walls.
It's an adventure... Hopefully one that lasts.
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Good for you! It's all about growth and evolution (not always easy) and you seem to be right on the money. *Big Hugs*
