Thank you both for your reply. I think one of things is a month or so ago I was talking to my wife about death and after life. I had a lot of questions and had started to think the way I had always thought of it wasn't true.
And yes its hard to talk to some folks about it. My ex wife seemed to handle it all very well. She told me it really helped her deal with it all. Now my current wife doesn't really say very much about. I guess its a lot for her to take in. I had also told her the date and time as well. I think maybe it kinda freaked her out a bit. I was told my great grand mother had this gift. I think one of my 3 kids has it as well.