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Originally Posted by Inika
yeah. you're so sage atm!
it couldnt hurt though right, to take time out for yourself and tend to the relationship wth self to really know what your values are. being in accordance with them and really knowing what you're about. Before clinging to the next body that takes you by interest.
boring, i know. but a little sacrafice can pay off big time.
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when you've sacrificed and sacrificed and sacrificed and noone seems to care other than for their own personal gain out of your sacrifices, you quit caring too.
as far as telling lies... it is just as mean to call a victim out on it as it was for the liar to force the situation in the first place. You are jsut throwing more blame on a person who already has to deal with a lot of weight. How exactly does that help anythin gother than your own person need to let off steam?
And anyway, it can be very difficult to get out of situations with liars. They are very compelling sometimes. Sometimes you do what you gotta do, and then to get it thrown in your face by bystanders who don't know anything about what has gone on before or what is going on now is jsut more of a rub. Just plays into the liars hands I guess, since all they seem to want (according to your reckoning anyway) is the train wreck.