Zydek, much love & light to you...and many blessings & condolences to you and yours at this time.
And you're so right, what you say.
Peace & blessings
Bound by conventions, people tend to reach for what is easy.
Here we must be unafraid of what is difficult.
For all living beings in nature must unfold in their particular way
and become themselves despite all opposition.
-- Rainer Maria Rilke