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I think you have first a good grasp of the self-aspects of the fit between you and your relations.
The bit about 'agree to live here' and 'care for the land' resonate. It is an open offer (and it is an open offer) that you would rise in wisdom by relating to your neighbors in a caring tending way, but one with clear borders and boundaries, and with your own house and land to attend to as well. It is sort of like finding a social relation with them that keeps a respectful space so you do not impose or feel imposed upon. "good fences make good neighbors'. Are you prepared to be a 'neighbor' to your 'family'. ? That is the choice.
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