ljepotica - - love your dreams. Your - - "fantasies." Most truly great men and women - - and most certainly the spiritual greats - - all know the value of imagination. From Einstein to Jesus to Rumi - - all told of the inner dream.

One often speaks of their "reality" as how they perceive life to be. Ms. Daisy had it right. What we believe in.

So - - I guess - - this is just one dilemma that cannot have a pat answer. You almost have to know who you are dealing with to know what they mean by using the word "reality." Or - - ask.

That can lead to some very interesting conversations. Or - - some rather intense battles.