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My thoughts on this subject, lean in favour of an instant feeling of association, when there is the likelihood of a bonding about to take place...That feeling is, for the most part: inexplicable...
To complicate things even more, the person who you might feel connected to, may not have similar feelings or thoughts regarding yourself...
I've been in a couple of situations like that... One of which did develop as hoped for a short period of time (long story) the most recent: is still on-going...
Personally, I don't try and rush things, encourage that other person to adopt my theories, or search for answers...
I prefer to simply take things as they occur, live with the feelings that seem to dominate the situation and wait patiently for something to come to fruition - if (in fact) it's meant to do so: at that particular time in my life...
What might be termed as: playing the waiting game...
Robbie....
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Never search for answers. Wait patiently until they are placed before you, which will be when you can unconditionally accept: and live those answers...
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