Stuck in a sad place to live - help me!
 

Hi there!

I joined this forum for help with this issue I am stuck with.

I live in a somewhat dull, but convenient enough suburb in NW London. Not a rough area, middling wealthiness but it's so sad! I am stuck here for at least 6 months.

Can someone help explain why myself and many others feel sad in here? MANY people I have talked to feel a shadow cast when they go through the place/have been relieved to move away/actively avoid the place/even experience depressive symptoms and draining of positive energy and motivation whilst living here.

I am fighting the last set of symptoms a I am extremely sensitive to residual/emotional energies. When I leave this negativity lifts! As if walking out of a cloud.

What can I do to protect myself from the negative effects and enjoy my life without dragging my feet or becoming depressed while I'm stuck here!!!?

And why are some people immune to any effect at all?

help greatly appreciated. hope this is the right section to post!
many thanks

First of all where abouts in north west london are you? i recently moved from south east (chingford) which turned into a complete hell hole, < to put it simply.. Im now in finchingfield away from london (thank god) and im fealing alot better.

It sounds like there is a lot of negative energy where you are at now.....I would try to just not let this negative energy affect you ---try to meditate to elevate your vibration and just think positive---surround yourself with happy music, watch upbeat shows and movies, etc....you are there for a reason so make the most of it.....

Use white sage to cleanse the area. It helps so much with negativity! PM me and I will tell you exactly how to do it :)

It may help if you can acknowledges & salute the good and the wonderfulness inside yourself. I guess we've all heard of breathing in the 'good' and exhaling out the 'bad' ~ but there is a breathing exercise / affirmation type thing where you breathe IN the negative and transform it by exhaling it, having turned the 'bad' to good ~ for example, the negative people where I worked......I breathed in their negative attitudes and breathed out rainbows, lollipops and roses kind of thing. You actually work at visualising these types of things (whatever works for you).

USE IT!

Use this situation to understand what you are seeing. It may be your only oppurtunity to deeply come to understand the illusion of human suffering and 'sadness' when no outer reason for it is apparent is a sure sign of deep illusionary thinking. Some tools to aid:
"The Power Of Now by Eckhart Tolle"
"A Course In Miracles" by Foundation for Inner Freedom
"Man and His Symbols by Carl Jung"
"The Shadow Effect by Chopra, Ford and Williamson"

:smile:

I sort-of know what you mean, writeincolour. I live in the North and my daughter lives in Kent. Now I can visit her by rail using my OAP railcard or I can drive at double the cost. I drive and pay the price purely to avoid London. Dirty depressing place !

However, a while back I put together a talisman which has been described as "grounding and protection" by other people.
Print it out and keep it in your home :smile: I have an A4 print in a cheap picture frame on my lounge wall.

http://i282.photobucket.com/albums/k...s/04ab7c0d.jpg

It combines the Powers of the Lords of the Elements with the blessing of Mother Earth.

Ive lived in Hacknay, Dalston for 6 months. One of the worst places to live in London.

Got beatup by a group of thugs and experienced alot of crazy stuff there.



Overall had a good time though:D, bare in mind it's 6 month and not permanent. Try to learn something in your spare time, keep yourself occupied. Maybe you'll meet new people.

Are the surroundings depressing in any way?