my grandmother
 

I think my grandmum has been coming through from my mums side of the family i have seen her in a vision and i seen her down stairs in the hall way in spirit at the corner of my eye

How do i connect with her because i never saw her when she was alive

Unless you have the ability to detect when you make a connection how do know your not doing it already? or her connecting with you more like it.

It doesn't matter if you saw her when she was alive or not now she is in spirit she can visit anytime.she is just showing you she is well in spirit,
asking her to visit you in your dreams would be a good way to start.

Namaste

Just chat away at her, it doesn't have to be anything ceremonial or complicated,.

Spirit is always around you, whether your a gifted spirit talker or not.

Just chat away to them, ask them for signs of their presence and accept what you receive :)

OMG! I think you should try to talk to her.

What was her first and middle name if she has one or more middle names?

Her first name was may and middle name helena
i saw her in a vision she was smiling i was wondering if its her that is about upstairs most of the time
i would apreaciate and confirmation thanks

Like the others said, keep that connection and just have a natter!! I do it! haha!

I believe they understand our thoughts and feelings also, so even mentally speaking/talking to her is cool. The vision you saw is comforting for sure, and visitations in dreams can be magical. Look out for the small things and she will be there <3