When People Die of Addiction
I believe in reincarnation. Like the earth is a school and each life holds new lessons..
Sometimes I wonder about addiction though. My mother died from alcoholism, my uncle had an addiction to prescription pain pills and either OD or his body just gave out one morning, and Ive had a few acquaintances die from various ODs. I wonder if they are in this life to learn to overcome such obstacles or maybe they planned to die that way to teach lives around them? I hear about people seeing loved ones after death but its usually when the person dies of natural causes. Ive seen my mom a few times after her death, in dreams. Ive had the more nightmare types where she does talk, then Ive had more peaceful ones where she doesnt talk.. but Ive never seen her spirit. My uncle Ive only seen once in a dream. We were at his funeral but he woke up and climbed out of the coffin, I had the same exact dream with my other, only the surroundings were different. But Im just wondering if someone dies from addiction why its not common for them to come back to visit. Is it because we have to work through something that is related with their deaths or is it more like maybe they are unable to visit because they did not complete their goals of this lifetime? |
lt depends on where they end up. lf it's in what Jurgen Ziewie (astral projector for 40+ years) describes as the First Dimensional Counterpart (lower astral), then the ppl you mention probably don't even know their dead. As he says below:
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Just another description of what drunks are doing in the afterlife - surprise, surprise, same as here lol: Quote:
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Thats actually pretty scary
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Though I do think it is possible for a spirit to get stuck in the in between in cases of traumatic or dramatic endings I don't believe it is permanent. In all cases loved ones and guides are communicating in an effort to get the soul to move on. Essentially I have heard in death you initially encounter what you believe the afterlife to be until your awareness shifts. Though I think the vast majority of souls move on pretty quickly but I do think I got stuck once and yet still eventually moved on. Of course any theories are all conjecture. No one knows for sure until they themselves move on but from everything I have read the pull to move on is pretty strong so unless there is a lot of trauma the likelihood of getting stuck I think is pretty slim even in addiction deaths. If it was that easy to get stuck then there would be very few of us on the other side able to come back. I think your loved ones are just busy or being blocked from communicating for some other reason. I went through a difficult time and wondered why my grandmother never came by to help but there is just more to it then I think we realize. She did come to me right at her passing and we said our goodbyes but when I went to ask her about the afterlife she vanished so I think there are sometimes other reasons they do not communicate that have nothing to do with them themselves either. I am sure your loved ones are fine and will communicate when the time is right.
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Interesting. Maybe there is a duality in the lives of those around you and your own. Each person has their own lessons. How might you decide which is which. Your lesson may be to see the effect of and result of addiction, but at the same time while their purpose in your life is what it is, it does not mean their only purpose was that.
I would love to think all the mysteries of the universe are revealed upon death, but I find that hard to swallow. I believe that a person or thing dies there are two ways for it to happen. Naturally, or forced. A natural death can be defined as the willingness to let go and move on regardless of addictions or physical attachments or cause of death. Forced would be bogged down by something the spirit can't reconcile. Maybe something like suicide or a strong physical attachment to someone or something that prevents them from passing through the vale peacefully. Frankly I don't know. I simply was brainstorming in parts and wrote it here because I felt this topic is aligned with the starting of a thought process from earlier that was interrupted. |
Yes, people do move on from that plane eventually or reincarnate (it doesn't have to be quick, though), but as jurgen said above, a lot tend to stay there for a considerable time - 8 years is quite long in my book. And looking at the state the mass of humanity is in, it's not surprising that they end up there. He also says
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I found this thread to be super interesting...
I have been struggling with the concept of passing away from addiction for a few months since losing my uncle. He died from accidental suffocation by the way he was laying / propped up by being highly intoxicated. He was religious in his own way and was struggling with his own issues and drinking heavily was one of them. I loved him very much and It was very unexpected. My grandma and mother and law passed away last year also from natural causes. I feel them and experience dreams, smells, and other unique things. I am very aware and feel very in tune with the spiritual world. I crave learning about it. I have not felt anything from my uncle though and I am very upset by this. I need closure as I am still uncertain how exactly he passed away, and feel upset by not knowing how he fell or exactly how this happened. I wonder if he made it through the other side almost every day. I wish I could know for certain. |
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Yes, it's painful. The only way we can be 100% sure is by going there to see for ourselves. Channellers and mediums are just a temporary solution - if you can trust their sources, that is. Most often you can't IMO.. The author l quoted above had a similar experience when his mother died. She was in a state of chronic depression which affected her afterlife state. When he saw her while out-of-body, she was in a very bad way, mentally and physically. Sometime later, he saw her again, and she was happy and completely transformed. She had also reverted to around her mid-twenties, which most do on the higher planes. He also says on a more positive note: Quote:
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Addiction is a sickness. We have had two family members die from an overdose, and they are with us all the time. A friend who committed suicide, appeared to me right away, saying he was very happy on the other side, and he had to leave because his life got totally out of control.
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If someone dies tragically, I would think it is hard to communicate with them because there are often raw emotions that the loved ones left behind are dealing with. Now if someone leaves the world after a long, well-lived life, there are good memories, and happiness connects with happiness, I would think.
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