I need Help!!!My life is cursed
 

Hello guys,
I've been in this forum for almost a year now.And I've been learning many things ever since. But still I didn't get the answer for my question.
My life is in an extremely bad situation and whatever things I do to solve my problems end up in complete failure. It's like the some strong forces are acting against me. I don't believe in curses but my current situation proves the opposite. It's like the whole world is against me. I've never done any harm to anyone in my life but still my life is somehow cursed. I don't know what's going on.
I'm having a feeling that some strong negative force is acting against me and i must do something but I don't know what to do. I hope someone would understand and help me with a solution because i strongly believe that this is the only place where I can ask this. I hope someone replies
Thank you

I'm sorry to hear you feel your life is cursed.

What are your problems if you don't mind telling us?

It's so easy to put a basic reply like ''You'll be fine'' but this isn't getting to the root cause of what is going on or any possible solution.

More detail will help others give a better response.

What I will say is that experiencing very dark moments of intense suffering is part and parcel of a spiritual journey, and I'm speaking from experience here. It is a wonderful thing and can completely alter your perception, and I mean completely.

i have faith that you'll come through this trial Jack Mitchell.
1) pause; get your bearings
2) head to the surface (you are underwater at this point)
3) breathe

the first step is gonna require you to let go of whatever is holding you down.
after you've regained a healthy perspective (reached the air), you might
decide to launch a rescue mission for whatever valuables you've been
required to release in order to regain safety for yourself.

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I have a strong reason to believe that it is a curse but I do know from where it came but still I'm helpless.
It all started with my brother. 13 years ago he visited some random websites asking for healing. And someone replied to him that he can help but he needs money, but my brother told him that he's unable to pay as he don't have any money. And his reply was this
"If you're not Willing to pay money,then your life will be a complete failure. You'll face financial crisis, your friends will leave you you'll never be successful. nothing good ever comes to you and your family will share the same fate of yours"

This was his reply. My brother didn't believed it and nothing much happened and he forgot about it. But slowly what was said in that message began to happen in his life. And now it's starting to affect me too. I'm helpless and I don't know a way to overcome this.if this continues then there's no use in me living this life as the curse would never let me live.
I need help!!!!

I could say the same thing about my life.and I know others are going through the same thing. you may think you are cursed but you are not.
bad things happen to good people all the time.it doesn't seem fair.but who said life is fair.
I have worked with people all my life as a carer etc.i have given up work to care for friends until they passed. yet I have had a hard life I have not had it easy yet my siblings have.
if you strongly feel like you get the worst of things use protection.you can visualise yourself in a cacoon of pure white light. in which no negativity can enter.

Namaste

the stranger who corresponded with your brother was not a healer.
the first rule for a healer is to do no harm.
a healer would not cast a curse of misery on anyone.
he was instead a 'shakedown artist', and a rather ineffectual one at that.
that would-be predator has had absolutely no power over your brother,
nor you, nor any of your family. he was a liar.

A Healer of any standing would not ask you for money.to say life would be difficult if payment could not be made. is load of rubbish.
a healer would only help with good intent. the website where this so called healer was from, needs to be closed down.
a genuine healer would heal with a desire to help. not make money.


Namaste

I agree with you H:O:R:A:C:E he wasn't a healer. But my brother's life is exactly what he told in that message. He struggles hard to get a job,his friends left him for no reason,he doesn't have any money income and same with my family which includes me too. I have no idea how this is all happening.
If this is a curse, is there any counter curse to do ??

The curse is that which you give validity to. An example from the book "The Four Agreements" refers to a girl who may overhear she is ugly. She gives validity to the statement in her mind and goes forward in life being affected, thinking she is ugly and feeling terrible and small about herself. Yet the reality is she is pretty but overheard the comment spoken by another girl who is insecure and jealous - who in fact knows the girl is pretty.

The curse is not in the words themselves but your belief in the validity of them. You must know we create our realities by what we believe - self-fulfilling prophecies. Think of the placebo effect.

Please do not give validity to a man having a passive-aggressive toddler temper tantrum moment online. This man has no power over you. The moment you see the emotional manipulation for what it is, you free yourself.

An assignment if you will to turn your thoughts and energy around: for the next 2 months, each day, think of 3 things you are grateful for (could be as simple seeing a smile on someone's face, a beautiful sunny day, hearing something funny, being able to have warm water with the turn of a faucet handle (clean water even), etc. Simple but effective. Own your thoughts and energy.