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hallow 07-04-2019 01:33 PM

Looking for a reason
 
Hey out there. looking for a reason to care. Just being honest.... I know things could be a lot worse and I am better off then a lot of people just have a lot of thoughts with no where to go. Anyone out there that can help? Or maybe vent there own thoughts?

JosephineB 07-04-2019 04:09 PM

Hi, I care because I'm not ready to give up yet!

Is your job in caring? If so, takes a special kind of person to do this work IMO.

M.Tesla 07-04-2019 08:23 PM

Hello. Ok I've been here before. A reason to care is because if you choose to not care then what happens is that this world becomes ****ed up. More so than it already is.

Choose to care. There are not enough people in this world taking care of each other!

Wally 07-04-2019 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by M.Tesla
Hello. Ok I've been here before. A reason to care is because if you choose to not care then what happens is that this world becomes ****ed up. More so than it already is.

Choose to care. There are not enough people in this world taking care of each other!

sounds like Jordan Peterson advice

ocean breeze 07-04-2019 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by hallow
Anyone out there that can help?


Not me. I would first have to see something wrong in not caring, and i don't. The less i care the more relaxed and liberated i feel. Too much internal pressure we place on ourselves and others that one "should" care. So when we don't, we often feel guilty, like there is something wrong with us for not caring. So we try to look for some artificial, made up reason to care. Hence, even when we say we care its often fake. It becomes more of a "should" than something true.

Today you don't care. Who knows maybe tomorrow you'll care. Which do you place more importance on: the act of caring or authenticity?

dream jo 07-04-2019 09:23 PM

im heae to lern
to be a grt artistt 1 day
to be mor spirtalll i need tp be
to not tak thngss for grantdedd lk i did wen i wz a kid
try to laff it bad stuff i did wongg insted of getin upset abot it <i no be hardd but i do hav to try .

Native spirit 07-04-2019 09:30 PM

People do care even more than you realise.i think we all go through times in our lives where we say why should I care because nobody else does.
but we just get on with it a lot of people with Depression feel that way. and when you feel down you cant see the Good out there.
people are always ready to listen .


Namaste

hallow 08-04-2019 03:24 AM

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Originally Posted by ocean breeze
Not me. I would first have to see something wrong in not caring, and i don't. The less i care the more relaxed and liberated i feel. Too much internal pressure we place on ourselves and others that one "should" care. So when we don't, we often feel guilty, like there is something wrong with us for not caring. So we try to look for some artificial, made up reason to care. Hence, even when we say we care its often fake. It becomes more of a "should" than something true.

Today you don't care. Who knows maybe tomorrow you'll care. Which do you place more importance on: the act of caring or authenticity?

what if really do care but you don't want to but can't help but to care. Example. I care but why the hell should I. It's a crazy chain of events that started this way of thinking. It's nothing anyone can do anything about. Most would laugh if I told them what it actually is. But this is one of the toughest things I felt with because it really is no body's fault.

ocean breeze 08-04-2019 04:49 AM

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Originally Posted by hallow
what if i really do care but i don't want to but can't help but to care.



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Originally Posted by hallow
It's nothing anyone can do anything about.


^^ Yep, pretty much.

What to do other than face whatever it is your going through as honestly and with as much awareness as possible.

JosephineB 08-04-2019 06:14 AM

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Originally Posted by ocean breeze
Not me. I would first have to see something wrong in not caring, and i don't. The less i care the more relaxed and liberated i feel. Too much internal pressure we place on ourselves and others that one "should" care. So when we don't, we often feel guilty, like there is something wrong with us for not caring. So we try to look for some artificial, made up reason to care. Hence, even when we say we care its often fake. It becomes more of a "should" than something true.

Today you don't care. Who knows maybe tomorrow you'll care. Which do you place more importance on: the act of caring or authenticity?


I agree. There's lots of virtue signalling going on it seems


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