Pink Mangano Calcite - changed when with my twin flame
 

Hello

I wore a Pink Mangano Calcite around my neck when with the man who I think is my twin flame. We danced together for about 40 minutes, and of course I feel pure happiness when with him. After having been with him for this time it changed. It was a pure pale pink on one side and darker pink on the other. It had then developed like a crack on one side and an amber bloom on that spot. Also other small blooms of amber. I also noticed on another day it smelled sweet like Vanilla. I wasn't wearing perfume and had not been with him on that occasion.

Could our energetic connection have created the change in the crystal?

thanks

Regards
Christine

Yes, I would say so. I would also say the crack and amber bloom are not a good sign. It seems to have taken an energy whammy.

I agree with CrystalSong

Hi. Can you tell me why it can be seen as negative energy. Thank you,

I'm interested, too. It seems to me as a good sign. The result of a huge enegry release.

Hello Errol. I was very happy when with him, and was feeling intense feelings for him when this happened. My body was warm after the dancing and so was the crystal. He did not touch the stone it was just around my neck. I have had a well known TF psychic expert read this connection and she considers it is a TF connection. Prior to this over the year I have known him I had someone else who specialises in connections tell me he is a spiritual catalyst. However there was one other I consulted who initially told me we had a soul connection and said great positive things about him, only to read for me a few months later and have him tell me he has a negative energy about him. So that is three very different interpretations. I have realised only I can truly know the answer here.

I found this on the web. From the hibiscusmooncrystalacademy website.

It’s changed color or it’s become cloudy or even developed some new inclusions or other attributes.

What I attribute that to is that a great energy exchange has taken place. It has interacted with you in some way that has caused its energy + your energy to intertwine (how beautiful!)…and that energy exchange has left a mark in the crystal lattice; has actually transcended from energy into matter.

Einstein has taught us that energy equals matter times the speed of light squared.

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So this energy exchange I’m talking about…the one between you & the crystal…it was able to actually transcend from the energy realm, and become denser & denser, because that energy exchange was so flippin’ intense, and transformed into the matter that makes up the molecules of the crystal; actually changed & transformed it in some way that you can visibly see, or touch and actually feel. Maybe there’s a fracture there now that wasn’t there before.

It manifested itself in some physical way into your physical reality.

Crystals are sentient too. They are aware and life moves through them....and they can be hurt.
Crystals cracking are like bones breaking, Plums of discoloration like tumors.
If you need to believe the crystal being damaged was a sign that you and the person you believe is your twin flame somehow made amazing energy that transformed the crystal for the good, then do so.

I'm not being fascisious or snarky. I once met someone I thought was my tf also and well remember the general insanity of that time and my thinking then, which was as crazy as I've ever known my mind to be.
Crystals were an integral part of that whole learning period and are still in my life - precious treasured companions. The 'tf' is not. Thank God. And my mind is once again my own and not usurped by a stranger, nor is my energy field. It took a long time, it was a long journey and crystals helped me get clarity again.

Had they been with me during the beginning of that time, during the insanity, mystery, intensity and deep longing, they may have even sacrificed themselves to try and protect me from him - they love that much.

Hello Crystalsong.. thanks for the post. I fluctuate between feeling I know what this connection is. My confusion is added by the readings I got. I did not consider he may be a TF until about a month ago. Before then I considered he was a soul connection of some sort. You make me think he could be a false twin flame. What I cannot deny that I know is happening is that I truly believe I have gone through some changes on a spiritual level. This I consider is a factual thing. The thing is is that 100pc him coming into my life has certainly been tumultuous but at the same time has helped me have the confidence to instigate some good changes in my life. Changes I had stalled on just prior to meeting him, and changes I had wanted for years but was too scared to do. I truly believe there was an energy exchange that day. Something happened. Is it possible to have a spiritual awakening or ascension process with a false twin flame present in your life?? ??

Hi Christine01,

I'm going to toss out another idea for you to mull around and see if you can use it to make some sense out of your own circumstance. I've had since 2011 when a similar situation happened to me (causing the end of my 20 year marriage and the awakening of consciousness) to mull this whole thing over and talk with Spirit about it and meet a number of other people who believe they also met their 'twin flame' and so what I'm about to share with you is all that put together.

Everything that exist in the Universe vibrates, and everything that vibrates does so at a particular and unique rate called - frequency.
For humans our frequency rate is made up in part by our physical being and it's health but also by our level of consciousness.
We can occasionally run into someone who vibrates at almost exactly the same rate as us and this causes all sorts of energetic exchange/expansion to happen which acts as a catalyst to launch us into higher states of consciousness. It lights a fire within us, an expansion of consciousness. I believe it happens to both people though one or both may bury it and stop the process and just chalk it up to high strangeness and run the other way instead of peering into the Mystery.
SO I don't believe in twin flames, I believe in catalyst and that there's a number of people in the world a near enough vibration to have this effect on us. There's 7.5 billion people in the world as of 2017 and a person born faster than every second. http://www.worldometers.info/world-population/
7.5 billion people is a bigger number than the human mind can actually fathom, we can't even get a good grasp on what a million is. The twin flame mythology says that we each only have 1 twin flame, not more right. Just one. Out of 7.5 billion people what are the actual odds that any of us ever would met the 'one and only'? Yet we have a whole forum of people here claiming to have done so and there's many twin flame based forums on the internet and I've met maybe 8 people in life now claiming to have done so. Yet the odds are better of having won the lottery mega jack pot thing - yet none of us here have won.

So good chance it's as Spirit says - a big mis-understanding by humans of frequency and like vibration and the potential energy exchange that happens when two like vibrations interact, which certainly can involve enough energy to cause the awakening of consciousness and cause crystals to crack and so on. The result is a real thing, a big energy blast/exchange even if we humans tried to turn it into a spiritual version of Cinderella.
Spirit says it's not about the other person, it's about how we spend the energy - do we use it to evolve or do we devolve through obsession about the 'other person'?

Anyway, just thoughts for you to mull around as you get yourself squarely on your new path. :))
Love and Blessings to you Christine01

Not entirely sure what is meant by "amber bloom"? You mean an amber coloured discoloration?
I see some mangano calcite have yellowish spots, maybe they come with other inclusions too sometime? Could be yours is trying to rid itself of something of lower vibration. Crystals also grow, open and activate more (= get higher vibrational). They can change colour, get cracks, fractures on the inside which creates rainbows (higher energy) and so on.
Since you had an extended moment of high positive energies, chances are this had an effect on the crystal, infusing it with those higher energies too.
It may resonate even better with you than before, as it will then still have this high vibration, so it can help you get there again as well ( provided yours has lowered since).
I'm assuming it was on your Higher Heart chakra (thymus) which is the seat of the Soul. If you had an intense deep soul connection with this man the pendant could very well have gotten steeped with very high vibrations from your Higher Heart chakra.

Just feel if its energies, with your hands or intuition. If it is still nice and shiny, I wouldn't worry about it. If crystals get affected negatively they tend to lose their luster and you sure won't feel much vibration of it anymore.

Hello CrystalSong. Thank you for the post. What you say makes a lot of sense, but the truth is if anybody were to look at my situation or anybody else's without any hard facts it truly is speculation - and it could be a catalyst, a soul mate, a twin flame if someone believes in that theory. A person can skew a set of circumstances and make anything fit if they want it to - I know that and am very cognisant of it, so was not ready to call it a twin flame connection before I had someone look at it for me.

Absolutely the statistics of anybody meeting their twin flame is extremely small. My logic had already told me that, so I agree with you. And the person who did my reading says there are only 144,000 sets of twins. As I said I got different outcomes on this from the readings I got on it. And to look at the hard facts of the situation I have strong elements of catalyst, soul connection and twin flame across this situation. All the readings said there was a spiritual or soul link though. So I have realised to try to be sure about what this is is not possible for me (at this point) or anyone else. Like at this point in time I am stressed by this connection and have a strong urge to run from it. Now if I wanted to put it in a twin flame 'box' I could say yes now I am the 'runner'.

What I know 100% is that my stone changed - that is a physical hard fact. What I know 100% is that I have had all manner of bizarre things occurring in the space I have met him. I know the connection I have with him is NOTHING I have ever experienced. There is a big age gap, and I initially could not understand my attraction to him. I was not attracted to him physically first as he is not the physical type that attracts me - it was the person, him that I saw first. Prior to meeting him I had initiated separating from my husband, I see repeating numbers, I smell things that are not there, my phone starts vibrating in my hand - give it to someone else it stops, I have got my first allergy attack in my life, first nosebleed, facial pain in cheekbones, headaches, vibrations in my body, balls of light or light flashes at random times in my vision (have had it checked its not medical), lost weight - gained weight, this song I had miraculously been searching for on my phone starts playing all of a sudden a few weeks later - this happened 3 times - twice as an alarm I did not set. The song's lyrics are very significant for this situation and the song was released the month and year he was born. I envisage my number plate bent, I go shopping, come back - it's bent. I worry intently about the age lines starting on my neck, and he says randomly 3 times one day..you have a very beautiful neck (so left field). And on and on it goes..

I am not trying to defend anything here, just saying this is most certainly a crazy period. And yes I know it is possible to obsess over the person, but I am careful to keep myself grounded as much as possible and don't make him the focus. I know the focus actually is me and the need to grow in all aspects. I remind myself of this when I think to much of him.

Thanks for taking the time to write your post. I really do appreciate it. I think only time will give me my clarity.xxx

Hello FairyCrystal. Thank you for your response. Yes the crystal was around my neck. Yes, with blooms I meant discolouration. It has a few amber spots on it now, with a 4mm crack / fracture (not sure of terminology) on one side that has an amber spot over it. It also has a small greyish smudge on another area. Other than this, it is still shiny and 'pretty and pink'. Sometimes when I am feeling unsettled I hold it in my hand as I sleep and I find it comforting. I do feel connected to it. xx

I'm also looking for my soulmate too and wondering how to find him and once I do how to recognize him and so on so forth. So could you please tell me your full date of birth and his so I can analyze your charts? And could you also please tell me if you are still together?
As for the crystal breaking, many people say that when a crystal can no longer help you (it did it's job) it breaks. So probably in your case it was either suppose to heal your wounded heart and when that was done it broke, or it wanted to find you your soulmate and once you did it broke. What do you think? I am asking you what you think because we are better at feeling what is happening with us, than other people do.

Thank you,
Monica

hello I am no expert in crystals or twin flames or anything really pertaining to this matter, but I love mangano calcite and wanted to comment about the idea of negativity of a person mentioned. before that let me say I got a rough pound of mangano calcite and some of the pieces have a darker gorgeous slightly coral pink color to them, ah it is heavenly.. anyways, I just wanted to add that I think that a person doesn't exist as a negative force, just that negativity could be accumulated, covering up their real true positive self.. so even if your twinny did have something negative about him, it doesn't mean he is doomed or that it really defines him, you know? I am glad you have had positive experiences with him. I think we all have room to grow and glow of course and surely he nor any of us are perfect, so even if that second psychic is correct it doesn't mean he's a lost cause or going to be bad for you. relationships usually have problems and solving them can be magical. not that I have much experience with that as I'm having issues with my own lol but anyway I don't think you should worry either way. enjoy the love and happiness that you have special access to, and if you are accepting of the imperfections then they can't really be too much trouble, right? about the crystal changing, that is just too cool, but on some levels we have to be able to energetically and even physically impact them just as they undoubtedly impact us right? I can't speculate on the matter really, just can be in awe of it, and the other instances and coincidences you mention that you experience, very cool! wish you peace and prosperity :hug3:

It sounds like you are waking up :) Things get super weird during this period. We learn our minds have incredible power. Like bending the liscence plate and bringing your attention to thoughts about your neck building energy there and him commenting on it.
As our energy channels clear up things go whacky in our body, sometimes super whacky as stuff held in our bones, muscles, sinew, intestines etc all start getting released.
As the energy channels get clearer and more powerful we effect electronics, they go totally whacky. I remember crashing medical machinery in hospitals when channeling healing energy to people in hospitals, my moods affected the weather, sometimes I intentially effected the weather.
I was at an event the other night when people were talking about what they went through during Awakening. It was so wildand so validating to hear others had been through such seeminly impossible things. One guy so amazed at what he could do with his mind had seen if he could do a Jesus miricle and tried to turn water to wine - he did it and it was witnessed by 20 people. And so it goes. We have been kept in the dark about the true power of our eternal Divine given abilities, Waking is re-discovering thema nd figuring out how to use them to bring more light and love into our lives and the world.

Even Jesus said in regards to miricles - "You will do this and more".

When we are Awakening others sense something and try to get closer to our light, to be in that light or figure out how to wake it in themselves or even just take it. Not that they realize what they are doing, rarely do they have conscious realization of it, instead they just feel compelled to be with us or somehow get us in their life more.

I had a guy turn into an octopus on me recently, kept trying to get every part of his body he could that wasn;t a sexual part somehow entwined in mine, it went on for hours. He kept saying "I just love your energy, it feels so safe with you." I knew it wasn;t me he was trying to drink in, it was the Light. *sigh* It sure makes dating hard...what are they attracted to? The human or the Divine? How does one know which they are trying to connect with? Rhetorical questions, but you get the idea. Awakening is a messy Path, so much to sort out as we thry and find Truth.


Wishing you many Blessings and curious how your Path is going since you started this post.:hug3: