Spirits tied to Lovers Have Mislead Me?
 

I have had a few boyfriend's where when I consult the spirit world I get s lot of encouragement to hang on to the partner and it seems misleading. Since the partner won't work things out with me. Are these extra hopeful spirits that are trying to help relationships succeeded? What usually happens is I hold out hope too long and it only ends up hurting me and backfiring coompletely.

Are you doing this yourself or seeing a psychic? If it is a psychic, it is a fake one.

If you are channeling yourself, you are not channeling your guides.

I had the same thing recently, I think it's just our subconscious hoping for the best.

I fail to understand why you would waste your time looking for answers from invisible things that shouldn't be trusted to begin with. If most of humanity can't be trusted, what makes you think spirits are any more trustworthy?

I think you need to ask yourself whether you are receiving information from the "spirit world," or whether the messages you're getting are the products of your own imagination, stirred up by all of your intense desires for a relationship.

Plus, if you want to know the real status of your relationships, and whether to keep pursuing ithem, why are you turning to the spirit world? Why not get that information directly from the men you're with, who are the ones making the choice to be with you (or not)?

You don't even have to ask them directly. If they aren't speaking and acting in ways that are congruent with being in love with you and wanting a committed, long-term relationship, then there's your answer. It may not be the one you want, but at least you're free to go find that man who will fall in love with you, rather than waste any more time on those who won't.

Men aren't mysterious or complicated at all. If you're the one they want, they will let you know; they won't hide it. If you find yourself doubting their desire to be with you in a serious relationship because they aren't acting accordingly, well, trust that! Again, it might not be what you hoped for, but at least you can keep moving forward, rather than staying stuck on someone who doesn't want what you're after.

I strongly agree with this. The man can tell you directly or indirectly whether you are meant to be by the amount of effort they put in. If their actions don’t line up then that is truly your answer... unfortunately. It is easy to turn to the spirit world in attempts to console ourselves but as noted you cannot trust that for a many number of reasons.