Eureka!
 

I had a Eureka moment recently! (I love Eureka moments!!) I am an HSP and I've really wanted to feel connected with the people in my life. Especially my husband, the person I share my life with, the person who is a fantastic father to my son. I've been trying so hard to make him happy, and to make our relationship perfect. And I knew the hard I struggled, the worse things felt. My husband seems completely mystified whenever I mention wanting a "soul connection" with him.

Suddenly, I realized, I've been ruminating on this, and that doesn't solve anything! I'm making myself miserable because my life doesn't resemble exactly what I want. But if I just let go, if I just trust that my relationships will naturally unfold into deeper, more fulfilling connections, then they will. Because the Universe has my back. ;:wink:

I suppose I just have to take that lesson, and try to use it in all aspects of my life. Which means I need to practice mindfulness...and that's a whole 'nother post! :tongue:

Hi LolKat,

I'm very glad for you, although this thread is quite old. Did you have other Eureka moments recently? ;)

Blessings

....I too am Hsp... And for many decades felt "misunderstood" or not "connected" to my family.... And in many ways, very alone. But then I came to realise that I cannot put it where it "isn't" LOL.... We are ( HSP) after all in a minority... And therefore cannot possibly hope that most of those around us "get us" or know how it feels to be us. But if they love us for who we "are" regardless, that's all we can hope for !!!

I think that can be said for a lot of people myself included


Namaste