what are men attracted to in women
 

i realize all men are different but in general.. lol i can't figure men out!

Me either. I could go on a rant that men only care about looks but I know it's not true and I know women are just as guilty. But also beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what one might find beautiful another finds it to be ugly. There's only a complication when the two or more parties involved feel that one is not pretty enough for the other. Lately most of the men who have found me pretty, I've been repulsed by.

What attracts me from a woman

1: A woman who smells nice, has a good sense of clothes that suits her figure, and has a kind face, with an opened heart to make new friends.

What I would like to see inside a woman who I am attracted to
1: feminine towards me, but a tiger towards strangers who wants to bully her, or her offsprings.
2: Knows when to keep quiet when her man is in business mode through conversations, or physical quarrels.
3: have her own instincts to share when its the right time, especially at home.
4: knows when her man is in the wrong, and to be calm and to correct him at home.
5: knows how to forgive her man, and in return her man will do the same.
6: not to look for trouble.
7: do the housework if her man goes to work and she doesnt.
8: to be able to accept the level of our quality of material life. Not expecting to drive a Mercedes Benz.
9: must be in her natures heart to have stamina in going out to have fun.
10 : she must understand me from inside out, otherwise its going to become a game of divorce.

I have found me wife after crossing the oceans. She does not fit all the categories that I have wished for, but its the best fish I could catch as I am not a great bait.

_/\_ Namaste.

I agree with you. It is always the beholder who can decide. We cannot exactly say what beauty is. It is a state of mind. The same person will look different to different beholders

You just haven't met that right ones, that's all.

I love your honest post. It very nice to hear what men like in us women :smile:
I particularly like point 1

Im interested in point 2 though about the physical quarrels. Does this mean if you end up in a fight?
Cos if it does I would want to intervene if my loved one got into a fight as I wouldnt want him to get hurt :hug2:

In general I would say the lack of feminine things the man is missing. We all have masculine and feminine sides and of cause we are attracted to the things we don't have ore have little of.

This are the things we seek (some knows it some do sent)

Then there are the things that are a match (feminine /masculine), the things we have and that we see others have. These things are also important since we need to feel as one.

I hope it helps...

thank you all

I think people are attracted to that which they see in another that they desire or sense that they lack.
I have been married to my opposite for 31 years now and I can see how we have become like each other in areas where we were not before.
For example my wife has always been more grounded and spontaneous where I had my head too much in the clouds and where I had to read the instructions before putting the kids bike together.
Now, I am very grounded and spontaneous but I am balanced and so is she in so many ways.
I don't know if this addresses your question Rosewater but it is what came to mind as I read it.
Keep in mind too, that you are very young and all of this I speak of above today was preceded by years of arguing and not recognizing how much we compliment each other.
With age comes wisdom...................give it time and enjoy the ride..................James