Man/ Women Threads What dont you want in another?
 

What don't you want ... this thread is generated by the thoughts of others threads ..:D

I don't want an angry ..short tempered ..immature male .. nor a sulky one.. nor a selfish one ...nor a greedy one...nor a cheat/liar/emotional manipulator
Nor a control freak/ abuser ..mentally or physically.. I don't want a man that's a perves at other women lustfully /Nor do I want a man into the porn or strip club industry/ I dont want a man that acts like other men when they are around and sits on the fence in his lovely humble belief systems to suit others negative ones .

I don't want to make excuses for any of the I don't want behavior's. if its part of a persons nature.

Seriously ..we can look at what we want .. but doesn't it pay to look at what we don't want too ? What do you think.?

I don't want temper tantrums / bullying/ nasty unwarranted comments /nor a person that picks on another innocent human. I don't want a lazy male/ nor a male with absolutely no hobbies /passions. I don't want a passionless male either. I dont want a male that is fixed in believing he is right because his "a man". I don't want a man that really isn't interested enough to know what I like or dislike ..mmmm that will do for now :smile:

OOphs I don't want a man that stinks/ doesn't look after himself / and only eats takeaway grease/ I don't want a man that's looking at my earnings and expecting me to provide/ I don't want a man that gave up on special occassions / I dont want a man thats breaks wind constantly and burbs and swears ...mmmm :D better stop for a bit lol

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Gee, you haven't left anything for the rest of us, Smiler! ****!

{Now you're talking!}

Chameleons ~ e.g., mama's boys who give every appearance of being separated in a healthy fashion from their mothers, but who turn around once it's too late and you realize you've married a two-headed monster. If that doesn't frighten you to death, nothing will.

Oh I don't want Chameleons either Silver ... Snakes in the grass ay.
Karma has to get those ones ..! Please :D


OMG I don't want the thieves ..sociopaths .. narcissists .. psychotics... real alcoholics..and give drug abusers a miss too .

And forget the ones that have a serious problem that impacts on your well being .. which they forgot to mention( thus giving you no choice to choose freely) until you married .the surprise!!!
I don't want the 3 million excuses just to get empathy while those types play power games or something weird ...

I dont want the ones that watch you eat a chocolate ..and I am a size 8...
Whatever! Even if I was size 18 its my chocolate :D dont want the eyes looking at my mouth then tummy ... can see those thoughts.
Don't want the man that expects me to be a toy/ dumb / or their mum .
And everything is one way street :D

OOphs 2.00 am ..up in 4 hrs .. Night :D
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Smiler, do you know my husband (soon to be ex) you were describing him so well and probably left some out... you can add narcissist in with that, that you included in the above post. Oh, and while he may not be in the porn industry, he spends views it constantly.

How about toyboys?

I've heard of 'em, but what are they (on the inside, where it makes a difference)?

Are you finding it therapeutic?

I am!! Thank you Smiler :hug:

Love and hugs

Jo

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...and do you know what the real killer is in all this realization after a decade and a half or more of 'experience' getting to the point where you know the pitfalls? When you look back and are able to spot the 'normals' (LOL) and thinking omg, I might've wound up with them if I'd had any experience and/or brains! Y'know, the ones you actually 'liked' annnd you just know they were normal or decently well-balanced people. Oi vey!

If i was in the position to want or not want I would say that:

I don't want anyone who doesn't want me just the way I am....lol

I also don't want anyone that makes a list of what they want or don't want....lol

James

Absolutely, I totally agree with you!

It was a counterpost!

What the realisation will become is what we deserve!

Which is neither want nor don't want, need nor don't need,,,,

It would happen naturally with love!

Love and hugs

Jo

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