affirmations to stop victim/blame mentality?
 

i've been having some difficulty in my relationship due mostly to my victim mentality and blame shifting. i was wondering if anyone had some affirmations that that have helped them or think would be helpful for me.

Hello,

I would suggest 'All that I create is Blessed'.

John

I believe that affirmations work only for contacting your subconscious. They aren't effective in asking the Universe for something. In your case, as long as you want to change yourself, it will work, if you want something else it won't.

I disagree with John's reply. In general, it isn't helpful.

I create everything around me...and all for the good.

Everything I see I have created, it's all perfect for me.

I am untouched by others actions or thoughts.

My peace relies only on me.

(If someone doesn't like those, don't do 'em. They were helpful to me...and
I'm answering the op.)

Life loves me and sends me abundant gifts daily. And I receive them with love.

Love reaches me and fills me up.

I have all that I need and more, I am rich materially, emotionally and spiritually.

All things that come to pass in my life are mine, part of my abundance.

This life is my adventure, a gift to endulge in - with reverence and gratitude.

I am magical and everything I touch is blessed.

I give with my heart so the world can grow.

My being heals the world and all life in it.


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And gratitude lists ftw! I mean they are kryptonite to victim/blame mentality.

Thank you for asking, I needed to remind myself of these today, myself crubling under victimhood and stomach pains :D