Sister is having a Crystal/Rainbow baby. Any advice?
 

My sister is 38 and has 2 nearly full grown sons. She has been wanting a daughter for a long time and has finally successfully become pregnant after many failed tries. Although its sex has not been confirmed, she is attaching on the idea that it will be a girl and everyone else predicts so as well. I know I should not worry, but she is also very verbally abusive and has explosive anger which she has inherited from my father. I am certain she will ruin that child's self esteem, as she has with mine (I have finally managed to heal and repair the pain that was left from my childhood and teen years).

Here's my question, can anyone give me any advice or suggestions with mentoring a child in a spiritual manner? I will not be forceful,of course. I just want be to someone who can give them spiritual advice that would have been immense help when I was a child.

Teach the child to look after the earth and animals, teach it not to harm the earth, only take what is needed from the earth so more things can grow ect.., teach the child how to defend itself from other kids and people, what to do in situations, teach them how to interact with people and understand them, allow the child to see the good side and the bad side of life, but don't go to over the top with the bad side because they are young, and explain the world or questions asked by them, to them in a down to earth and honest way (unless the topic is about something not so down to earth then go off into where ever, they need wonder and imagination as well! very important imo). Have fun too of course not always serious.

You will have mainstream school (if the child goes there) t.v and media, other children and other parents all potentially being an influence for the child as well and you need to stay on top of that too, or tell/show the kid how not to be influenced easily by these things.

Some parents just think they can send there kid off to school and not really take part in teaching the kid anything because the school will do it all for them this is a mistake i believe.

There going to learn and have there journey (the children), if you care enough to be apart of it, thats good, teach good things to them. Im not speaking bad of parents by the way, it is a big job i could imagine and im sure the majority do there best, what i shared here would just be what i would do and take note of.. some things anyway.

Love the child and share your own faith with it, share how having faith has help you in your life and teach the child how to pray and how to sing songs of reverence. Pray with the child so it learns how to speak to the Divine and feels comfortable and welcomed to do so.

These seeds will take hold in their own way over time - but having hope and faith and a belief in a Benevolent unseen force can be the Guiding Light in the darkest of times.

I can think of no better Gift of love than the Gift of Faith and Hope to another which is not dependent on another human.

This is personally why I'll never have
children until the conditions were
met for it to manifest perfectly for that being.

First, I would investigate thoroughly into
his/her natal chart / astrology / numerology /
tarot spreads / kabbalah profiles when
birth occurs. Precise time- down to the
second & location are needed. General
guidelines can be generated through these
tools.

I'd have the child deeply immersed in nature-
"Off the grid"- in every way possible , academics
(True academics, I would homeschool them), arts, music, athletics, etc.

You want them fully engaged & balanced within
every aspect of their being: left & right
hemispheres of the brain / lower/mid/upper
regions in perfect synchrocy, chakras
in perfect alignment, balanced feminine &
masculine energies. You want their
energy in balance. Keep the body in
movement. Keep the mind in movement.
Maintain the cycles. Maintain the circuits.

Keep them away from toxicity - sensory
input beyond thresholds / dangerous &
maladaptive stiumuli (should start with
mother & father years before conception
- hence 'waiting') Ensure everything going
into that being is conducive to their well
being.

No pharmaceutical drugs, no controlled
substances, no genetically modified
organisms, no commercialized products,
No pollutants. No harsh chemicals / toxic
compounds. No negative disruptions /
hostile environments. No negative
parties. No negative influences. None.

No mainstream forms of "entertainment".
No mainstream television, movies, or music.
Nothing that will harm the being. Consciously
or subconsciously.

From the very beginning, you empower
them with truth. Absolute truth. Their
true origins, their divine nature, their
infinite power/potential/worth that they
embody.

Your next step is, candidly, being forceful with the individual verbally in return. It's a sad fact, but peace is met with peace and war.. It's met with war. Explain to her the error in her ways. Sit her down and give her examples of her mistakes, make her see where she has done wrong. Then show her where's she done right.. She is a human being and allowed to be however she is... But you need to make her see the best course for her unborn child.

Your other option is to give her an incentive to remove the child from her care via financial gain or other bonuses to allow you to raise the child upon it's birth. As far fetched as it sounds, most people with an outer exterior of verbal/physical abuse is very susceptible to bribery. This may be your best option if you have it available.

If either of the two fail.

Let the baby be born, file for custody discretely and visit her often. Whilst doing this, contact Social Services. Instruct them this is a guise to covertly show a misconduct. The child-services system will take care of the rest.

What in the actual hell did you just even say? Did you even read the post?

Okay. SO I misread it and seen it as a situation I was in personally.

You have to grow a backbone.

Then read what I said.... That woman wasn't good to you, nor both of her kids...

What makes you think she's going to be good to this one? Take action.

A crystal is there to give universal love to everyone. It will be there for the parent's well-being and not the way we are used to seeing it. Do not worry. It'll outlove all of you no matter what you do.

good luck
 

Get ready for an incredibly polorized, kind, and very sensitive child who will need a lot of kindness.