Can't make a decision.....
Living in this non duality consciousness, feel so hard to make a decision....
for example, I want to become a better person earn more money, more successful, more attractive. then I realize I m non duality being,i don't need to become a better person don't need to earn more money or more attractive. because who I m right now is also a version of the Oneness,Oneness chosed this way to experience the earth life to be poor and unattractive. If I want to be more successful more money more attractive, that can be fulfilled too, and in other versions of me I m already that way. So, finally , all I need to do is staying as the same, no change, nothing to do.... just accept and enjoy the current situation as whatever it is......since it is Source wanted me to "experience" in this incarnation.....if I want too much , that is from my disbelief the ego and duality mind. How do u think? Thank u。 |
I don't really think. I feel. I live. I love.
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Whatever you do it will be Oneness looking and feeling like you doing it. It feels like you deciding and doing but it never has been, is not now, and never will be. For that reason there is no you to get anything wrong or be somehow not a genuine nondual person:). No matter what you do it will be Oneness appearing to do it by and to 'itself'. From a nondual perspective there is only the appearance of separate people where there are no separate people whatsoever, yet we are conditioned to believe that there are, understandably so, as separation looks so convincingly solid. In this sense nonduality is madness because it flies in the face of our experience:) Despite that challenge (which is too much for some) it seems nonduality can nevertheless resonate with some characters to end the feeling of disconnection, no matter what state you are in. for Oneness is all states. Good Luck. |
You manifested in this world to experience duality.
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Perhaps we have to differentiate between Oneness (or the Self) and Consciousness. While some people may declare there is only limitless unchanging Oneness, we are also Consciousness experiencing the limited worlds of form, as inavalan says. The Self is the Self, whatever our personal circumstances. Changing our personal circumstances has no effect on the Self. But as Consciousness experiencing form, we cannot do nothing. We are bound to act, even while knowing that the Self does not act. Does Source really want us to experience particular things? Does Oneness really choose to be poor or rich, beautiful or unattractive? Or is it Consciousness that chooses particular experiences in a particular environment for its own learning? We live in a paradox. We choose and we do not choose. We act and we do not act. We may accept the reality of each moment without resistance, but we can also change all future moments by our choices in this moment. So by all means try doing nothing, try staying the same, try not changing. But you will find that you cannot do nothing and change will happen. So the question is, are you fulfilled? Are you happy with your current circumstances? If so, great. If not, then only you can change your experience. We are all actors in a play but we are also writing this play. Peace. |
If we give up the "Trying ", give up totally,
will the Oneness/Source come, and do ? and only when we really reach the level of "giving up",only then I guess the Source will come? |
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Source (Oneness) is all there is! It doesn't "come" or require any "giving up". It is already what you think and feel you are right now! It is already Oneness (Source) feeling that you are separate. If that feeling ends you will indeed feel better but you will not be any MORE connected to Oneness than you are right now!! |
Hi starnight1, |
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As has been said so often in these discussions, there is a big difference between the intellectual understanding that Source or Oneness is all there is and the actual identification with Oneness. It is like the difference between reading a menu and actually eating the food. Identification with Oneness makes no difference to Oneness but it does involve a huge shift in Consciousness, and that shift comes through complete surrender. Peace. |
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And for that reason the reply is so often required that it is already Oneness not having the actual indentification with 'Itself':). And also for the purpose of connection, there is no difference between reading the menu and eating the food, for Oneness is both:) And before you mention it, it is also Oneness manifesting as 'anyone' not realializing any of this! So realizing it will not in any way increase connection. There is really no distance to travel for total connection to Oneness. |
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