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ReturningMoon 15-04-2024 10:00 PM

Is "just family" really enough for anyone?
 
Hi everyone. I think that as children our needs could be met by family alone. It isn't until adulthood that we realize the needs our family didn't meet. At this point we realize we need more in our life than just family. At least that's my experience. At one time all my family met my needs; now only some I remained close with.
So do you think just family really is enough or do we need more than just that?

Miss Hepburn 16-04-2024 12:57 AM

I never thought my family met my 'needs'....they gave me good food, shelter and health care, tho.
More than they had during the Great Depression...in America.
I escaped the week I turned 18 years old.

Redchic12 16-04-2024 06:23 AM

Yep have to agree with Miss H.

I also left at 18. Not only the family but the country. Best thing I ever did!

AngelBlue 16-04-2024 06:45 AM

My family NEVER met my needs.
They let me down.
I left home age 16.

But I understand the post.
Family ( under normal circumstances) can fill the needs of a growing child.
But in adulthood we need a partner and kids and obviously close family cannot provide that!

Native spirit 16-04-2024 08:29 AM

I would have to agree with the other Answers my friends were my support growing up not my Family


Namaste

Redchic12 16-04-2024 11:47 AM

Same as you NativeS. I consider my mates as a “precious gift” because that is what they are.

Native spirit 16-04-2024 08:49 PM

In other words Redchic

In the garden of life the flowers are the friends you pick yourself


Namaste

Redchic12 17-04-2024 05:45 AM

NattiveS…….love it!

BigJohn 17-04-2024 12:42 PM

Grew up with myself as my best friend. I loved to explore and the best person I had to do it with was myself.

Altair 18-04-2024 05:05 PM

Blood's important. Even if I don't see a family member for a while they are still family. It's not something I think about, you just help one another out.


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