Separation after 23 years, heat and tingiling with left hand holding his ring
 

Hi everyone I'm new here. I recently broke up with my husband weve had a rough year really rough. Before we were very happy. We were both to blame however it came to ahead and hes left, I'm devastated feeling like I'm dying from a broken heart I've been with him since I was 14 we have children too and these 2 months are the longest weve ever been apart. However I saw a spiritualist she held our wedding rings she said his she felt he was very hidden person she was right he is/was until I found out last year. However I was holding his ring in my left hand earlier and began to feel a tingling heat sensation does anyone know if this means anything? As it stands there appears to be no hope of reconciliation hes getting his own place and is adamant but when I felt that as silly as it sounds I wondered. I used to have premonition many years ago but it faded. Since this has happened I'm dreaming again when I'm not in a state of insomnia. Any info would be helpful thank you.

You are going through a difficult time. Reconciliation seems unlikely if your husband is adamant that the relationship is over, and maybe too much has happened for you to ever regain your former happiness together. Perhaps the best you can hope for is to remain friends.

We usually get married thinking we will be with our partner for the rest of our lives, but sometimes it is not meant to be. It must be quite strange, perhaps scary, being on your own for the first time as an adult. But maybe it is also a new beginning for you, even if the adjustment is difficult. You are suffering now, but in a few years time you could be enjoying a new life.

Peace.

Thanks, I get that but we have really loved just had a very bad year I hope that in time the anger and hurt my husband feels will fade, I truly believe were meant to be but I know I have to accept life may have different paths for us. Spiritually I think the warm tingling is that he still has love I dont know maybe and I'm so grateful for what we have had. I have forgiven an awful lot I guess men may find it more difficult from an ego perspective I'm not sure.

In any relationship there has to be trust. It's not something you can just take a packet off the shelf, rip it open and apply to the heart. Once it's gone (the trust) it will never be completely restored. Never. There will always be doubts.