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Alice11 11-01-2019 09:48 PM

My Twin Flame Never Responded
 
So I believe I have met my twin flame. I've known him for a few years, and there's a long extensive back story. (I'll share it if anyone wishes to know it). Long story short if that I've liked him since I've met him. I wasn't able to be with him at the time we first met because he was already in a relationship, so my feelings went dormat. Last sunmer I saw him and it triggered my feelings for him, but again timing was bad. So I recently connected with him and told him my feelings, but he never responded. What could this mean? It's not necessarily a rejection is it? I'm unsure if I should try reaching out to him again or just leave it alone?

Lorelyen 12-01-2019 12:34 PM

I'd say that you haven't had enough chance to get to know him deeply enough to be certain about twin flame. I could be wrong. Did you ever discuss your feelings specifically about twin flame or spiritual matters with him?

No, not necessarily a rejection. Why not try to keep in contact on a fairly casual basis now and again? Try to keep it neutral, i.e without emotion except maybe ending "lots of love, Alice" (assuming that's your first name) which if the text is neutral comes over more a friendly gesture to someone you've got to know than an absolute devotion?!

Allow for the fact that he may not be your twin flame. In spite of all the spiritual mumbo-jumbo TF can only work with mutual consent even if it's just a willingness to try to converge. Seems that some men get intimidated by spiritual demands of a relationship. I personally think someone expecting another to be their TF is a very big ask - effectively proposing a spiritual marriage across eternity - so they have to be in on it too. I've no doubt that the TF phenomenon is possible but is one of these one-in-a-million occurrences. Ordinary relationships can be entirely fulfilling without the need for it.

Good luck.

starstar 13-01-2019 02:45 PM

I would say it is absolutely a rejection. At least in the romantic sense. Also, frankly, quite a rude rejection as well. Ignoring somebodys request to have coffee together could be used to not offend that person's feelings. Ignoring love confession is just rude. If somebody poured their heart to me i would have at least responded with something like "sorry, im not on the same page", instead of leaving them hanging. But, again, he might have thought that silence is easier on you than blatant rejection. I would not contact him again, he can do so himself at this point.


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