TF belittles only me without any reason, why?
 

He belittles me every time, but in a kind of joke! to the other girls is he super friendly & would never dare to do that .. And when I become open & tell him about some "problems" he never agree with me:icon_frown:

He is not your TF, plain and simple.
One day he might start beating you up for not agreeing with him.

There is no point in asking why. If he is that kind of man he will not change, least of all by you or for you.

Don't be one of the woman who will one days say "all the signs were there".

Get rid of him.

Watch Leslie Morgan Steiner's presentation on TED : "Why domestic violence victims don't leave"

I agree with Rin....be careful. Don't tolerate any kind of abuse, whether verbal, mental, or physical. Life is too short to spend it in misery.:hug2:

Of course i agree with your quote :) I saw the video it ws shocking.. Indeed, everyone should be careful and understand what's going on whether soulmate or not. But deep connections are always difficult, you must decide how far it should go.. I decided to take distance after his behavior

Is it belittling or teasing? My TF teases me all the time & it used to hurt my feelingss sometimes. Then I called him put on it & he said men tease women they like & that's his way of showing "affection". So when he started complimenting me more instead of teasing as much, I knew he loved me, too. Complicated creatures, aren't they?

I have to agree that this could be it (not saying that it definitely is, of course). Both my late uncle and my tf have a type of teasing that they do towards those they are affectionate towards that is downright brutal. It actually comes from a lack of self-esteem on the parts of the men who do this, but it was very evident when observing my uncle and now my twin that the people they love the most get the most ribbing. (Very difficult trait to deal with, imo).

This reminds me of that article the put a care label on the tf label. Meaning there are types of tf relationships......But then again I have seen this pop up in some readings I have given in the past..

Ask him to stop and that it bothers you and how much it can hurt you. I think he should pick up on it but if he asks you what wrong and you say nothing then...........

Twin flames don't do that. That simple.

Yesss teasing! Sorry my english is not so good xD I've looked it up and yes he teases me :/ Last time he exaggerated with his actions lol It ws very hurtful i tought why are you sitting next to me when I am so bad, he criticized on everything:redface:

Yes it ws teasing xD hhmm my twin too he had a very difficult childhood.. Do you think they realize that? Cause it's very frustrating to date with such a person :s I feel sometimes bad after our meeting