I think that our Spirit/Soul/Essence/whatever you want to call it, is neither male nor female. I think that we get reincarnated into any gender that is available and which suits our life purpose for our development.

If you're somehow born into a body that doesn't 'feel' right for you, you don't have to conform to gender stereotypes these days. I know a man who works in a womens clothes shop, and dresses to appear female; how he 'feels' himself to really be!

Yes, I believe this is a possibility.

Well, you make the best of it!! :tongue:
I remember 3 past lives when I was (very) male...I saw what I looked like...
in one, especially, very male! :D

Trust God...we are here to learn what we are supposed to!
This is such a short time here...learn all you can.:smile:

Well, you certainly came to the right place here! :hug2:
Male, female....we're all just souls....and love is just always love.

It's quite fascinating in all the past lives I know of...it never made a difference as
to the position to me in my life (the roles of either friend, father, sister, or boss)...it was the nature of the relationship
regarding kindnesses or hurtful insensitivities...all acts of
pain, of course, immaturely projected outward.
We are forgiven so easily because our Father....or Source knows all that we struggle with.


Gosh, we are only androgynous souls. :smile:
Good topic.

I can related. I am totally a heterosexual female as well.
Before I even knew or believed in reincarnation, I was a tom boy as far as I can remember.

As a child, I played with boys a lot and enjoyed hanging out with boys than with girls. (Until my dad put a stop to it, although all intentions were platonic friendship, he did not see it that way. But my dad often said that I would be a perfect as a boy.)
When I played with girls, I always took male roles when playing house with girls.
In my younger days, I tended to gravitate toward male dominated careers and liked to having male friends. - rather than female friends.

I am extremely independent by nature and not emotional.- more logical.
I have a tendency to lead my relationship with men, including husband as well.
"That is right! He can not tell me what to do, ever!" :biggrin:

As I get older, I feel more comfortable with my female being. - Nonetheless, I still need to be either complete equal or be the lead in a relationship with male.

About 20yrs ago, I became aware of reincarnation and due to my own connections/life experience/ life events, I started believing it.
I am a firm believer now about reincarnation.
On past life readings, I found out that my soul had reincarnated into male bodies most of the past lives.
Hence the reason, I act like male, although I am a female in this life.
But I am ok with the whole thing now because I am getting used to it. :D

......... dup

Every sliver of broken mirror you release from your clutches is lost to an endless sea of shards; neither do we have the power to restore what was. The edges of these things never stop cutting until you drop them, and if you do this, you are lost. Do you understand me? It is a choice between hardship and oblivion.

iv alwayz saed im goona be man nxt lif
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feal lk iv bean a womenn yo many timss i hav