I think I have had too many to count and yet missed them all, good thing because I am just getting to the good stuff. :wink:

many NDE accounts mention being given the option of "departing" or returning
to the physical form... so, from that, a [single] specific exit isn't laid out in advance.

I wrote a piece last year on exit points;
https://visionarymusings.wordpress.c...0/exit-points/

I also go into greater detail in a book I am finishing writing. Not everyone has them, and there are no more than three, plus the final one when you do transition.

"Life is a celebration of free will and spontaneous creation in the moment of now. You do not set out with life plans in great detail, certainly not that of your death. The reason for this is because you do not, ahead of time, know the decisions you are going to make, the feelings you are going to experience and the sense of values and purpose you are going to create in your life. The ‘persona’ of the life you are about to create is not apparent to you yet since the persona which is now who you currently are was created by a great many events in your life, which in fact were not planned at all, but are the result of others deeds and actions, and influences of society and species as a whole. You do not know in advance the cause and effects of these others influences on you before you are born into physicality." ~Spirit Guide Sparrow for more, see: https://spiritguidesparrow.wordpress...ng-past-lives/

I remember existing between lives, if you will, I also recall planning exit points, working more with probabilities, if x, then exit; if y continue on with plan z, type stuff. I also recall "contracts" if you will, they were more like agreements, if the other person got off track or deviated grossly, remediations were made, some things were more etched in stone and others as an option. It's easier to plan a life when you are operating outside of the time-frame structure, plus it's not like one is along in the process.
Though not sure on how ubiquitous it is, it's just my experience.

Thank you AnotherBob, for sharing Sparrow's words of wisdom ......

all that he has said, makes total sense.

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You do not set out with life plans in great detail, certainly not that of your death.

I am not a believer that we pre- plan our lives, how can we with all the possibilities of other influences, and choices we make .... or choices that are made for us, depending on others and circumstances ?


All very interesting for sure :smile: all the different replies ......

Thanks to all who have replied !

In my very hard experiences, which are otherwise it's possible. Just as my belief opens the space for others to experience otherwise. I have a contention when someone speaks on beliefs that negate other's expressions, and experiences.

Just as we can plan a vacation, just so we can plan lives. It isn't implausible, just improbable for some. One's experience of planning a vacation, doesn't negate another's belief of not planing a holiday. Just as there are travel guides, maps, even tour hosts, there are similar in planning lives.

If a person chooses to ignore all of that, it doesn't mean it's impossible for others to choose to utilize suchness. To speak for all of creation in one sweep of a brush, well.....count me out.