why do I have the urge to die?
I have the urge to die .. not to kill myself but just die
I'm not desperate or anything but I don't know why could it be from this memory that I have .. I was talking to my spirit guide before i was born ... and I asked him about someone .. and he told me that he died long time before me .. because he is a good person I'm not sure if this is the reason why I want to die or not any ideas? why would a person want to die? |
I would ask myself... why isnt the urge to live? Pehaps their is some resistance to life as it is. Perhaps its that life beyond in death, is perceived as more contentment to the soul. I guess their are many reasons why people wish to die. Is an urge the same as a wish?
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you're learning to accept death I guess..
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It could be curiosity, and you know what that did to the cat lol....no serious, it could be your inner SELF, calling to you, when one is Awakened, they realize this inner SELF, then they can come back and not even think of death, they know that there is no death.
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I don't know also why isnt the urge to live yes there are many reason but i have limit it no an urge is not the same as a wish .. not at all thank you ,, |
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I accepted it long time ago .. but maybe I accepted it too much :D |
There is a lot going on in the Universe and people are having an urge to "go home". It's a part of the planets ascension and our heightened state of awareness. I also believe it's also part of being sure you fulfill your soul's purpose here.
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My old man had a friend like this who worked with him, he wasnt suicidal either he was a normal guy but he said exactly the same thing as your saying.. and a few years later he actualy jumped off a bridge onto the Busy M25 that goes arround london, he tried to take his life, but when asked why he did it he said he didnt actualy remember a thing like no memmory of it, yet he didnt hit his head or anything so thats just completely weird. A few months later he did it again and this time jumped off of Tower bridge (this is usualy where most people end there life its a hotspot for it now) The thing is he didnt hurt himself at all apart from a graze, yet again he didnt remember a thing.. I dont know what to make of this at all, but the guy acts completely normal and he has said exactly the same thing although he isnt suicidal so yeah.. i had to reply to this post seeing as its just ironic that my dad knows someone in the same possition. Also i will add that a week later he went beserk because he got Tinnitus (high pitch ringing in the ear) which medical services still cant propely identify the cause of, this led to him having a nervous breakdown.. So overall a very strange occourance for someone who was normal one minute and just gone the next. He also had no history of mental illness in the family.. so again "weird" |
I never actually have the urge to die, but I do have days when I have to wonder "why." Why is my life the way it is? Why are things so hard? Why is the world in the state it's in? Why am I bothering? There is a quote I read somewhere once that has stuck with me:
"bored by the sheer monotony of the days." This applies to me a lot - most of my days tend to be the same routine, and it gets boring...I think this is what leads us to the urge to just be done with it! However, I then get the moments that make me smile and laugh, or just feel total joy....and I remember the "why." Those moments are the why....hold on to them. |
Dena: Why do you have the urge to die?
Because you haven't found the reason to live! We all have a mission, a purpose in life. I think that you just haven't found yours yet. We all incarnate on the earth to learn and to advance the soul, but more than that, to fulfill our life on earth we need to give something of ourselves to enrich the world; to make it, even if only in small way, a better, brighter, more beautiful place. |
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You say your not desperate or anything, and this in itself is akin to a little light that goes on. I have written this before I'll write it again. Always rule out the obvious before reverting to the paranormal/psychic solution. aka get yourself checked out medically, psychologically and nutritionally. I am interested in what you do, do you work in a stressful job, shift work at home/with kids. What kinds of dreams have you been having in the last 3 weeks. How long have you had this feeling, all your life thus far, since a prescribed time. When you were a child? When did you remember this spirit guide memory? Did you remember it yourself, or did someone else induce it? v |
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It may comes from curiosity, or it may has something to do with how you're feeling about yourself and the life you're living. You didn't go into details and asked a very general question so it's hard to know exactly why you got this feeling about dying. |
Reuniting With Extended Energies?
It may be that you’re misinterpreting the urge to reunite w/ your extended energies as wanting to die. Many are having this urge. Not to die, but to reconnect w/ their extended energies.
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Chastizing Other Posters For Not having A Particular POV
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I’m gobsmacked that there is some sort of NEED to chastise other posters for not offering the POV that you have. What purpose does spanking other posters for not providing your POV serve? Does it strengthen your POV in some unknown way? IMO the poster doesn't sound depressed, but curious. |
How old are you? What is your state of health? Have you lost someone very close to you recently, or have you lost many friends and relatives in recent years?
I'm 60, and starting to feel the aches and pains and limitations that come with age. I retired from work in 2009, lost my wife in 2010, and have come to realize that most of my life is behind me, and that most things in life that I wanted to do, I've already done or now no longer will. In the past several months I've been reading a lot about the afterlife. I'm less fearful of death now: more conscious of it, and more curious about the next world. But I still haven't reached the point where I WANT to die. I believe that until we reach the point where our physical or mental limitations tell us otherwise, we all still have a lot of work to do, and a lot to learn, in this world. Else, why are we here? :confused: Jim |
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Second Childhood Forgive me for my gypsy soul And all my wandering ways Don't scold when I neglect the chores There will be other days. I must explore the mystery Of every pot of gold Hitch a ride on every rainbow Over every winding road. And follow every falling star When the moon is bright Meander through the daylight 'Till it turns into night. Ride the crest of every wave Dancing in the sea Like a child escapes in play Biding time, until eternity. ~ Adeline C. Wood ~ |
Why do you think you want to die? Were you close to death? Many think they want to die, but they're happy just to think. They won't be happy to die.
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i just think sometimes the mind mis understands the message.. the goal is for our ways or will to die but like always we mis understand the message and do the opposite.. lol.. All The Glory Beloings To God Forever! |
I have felt like this. There is nothing in life that I want in particular so I feel I'm not moving forward in any direction. I haven't found anything to actively work toward so I wonder alot as to why I'm here. Helping others is all I can think to do. When it comes to just me, I feel I'm ready to move on whenever my time comes.
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meditate so you can hear clearly..sometimes - no most of the time our soul has an agenda and when our mind does do it - our soul is frustrated.. can you say spoiled in spirit..lol.. just meditate but think you- or ask the question show or tell me whats for me? All The Glory Belongs To God Forever! |
Why would a person want to die, maybe they're running from something. As opposed to, being at peace, and ready to go at anytime God wants them. I don't fear death at all. I would say, I am afraid of everything but death. (Whereas my husband is afraid to die, but he is fearless about just about anything else.) I don't feel comfortable in this highly material place.
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Why would a person want to die, maybe they're running from something. As opposed to, being at peace, and ready to go at anytime God wants them. I don't fear death at all. I would say, I am afraid of everything but death. (Whereas my husband is afraid to die, but he is fearless about just about anything else.) I don't feel comfortable in this highly material place.
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A spiritual stage understanding "Death" as a part of your evolution and a part of your spiritual evolution. Something has to die so new things has to be reborn. Old habit and ways of thinking must be brought to an end so new things can emerge. Death is a part of you transformation and before you start you need to understand this, because you are going to experience this many times. To understand death is also to understand evolution, to understand one’s own evolution is to understand who we are. You are in a stage of preparation; you need to understand before you continue. That’s why you are at a stop. Learn before you travel further. Learn not to fear death in all the different forms it has and understand the evolution you are coming to go through. You want to know when you die and what kind of death. You can answer that question Meditate and imagine what kind of changes you have to go through so you can be your true self? Imagine the changes as the death of the false you to become more you. Death has many aspects; the physical understanding of death is only one of them. Yours Peace and love from me to you A peaceful Mind |
I think you have some ideas why you don't want to live. I can only say that it's so easy to end your life but staying alive and trying to change yourself and your environment need so much courage. Stay with us. Let's try to change the world together. :smile:
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Same feelings
I don't know, I feel the same way. It's not like a sadness but just a feeling of not wanting to be here anymore.
Yet, as has been suggested, I am trying to go outside of myself and find reasons to want to be here. For now, thats the best I can do.... |
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This may seem strange but sometimes we need to be lost to find ourselves. Need to relay on other things than what the eye can see. Finding ones place in the world is something that is important. When I were young I had the feeling like I were a stranger in a strange land, I could not understand why I were born in this country and in this family. Until I chose to - until I found the answers within. When I understood I chose to live I the life I was meant and wanted to live. I will include you In my prayers Yours A Peaceful Mind |
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Soul remembrance has a lot to do with it. Who would not want to go back to an ineffable realm of pure Light and Love? But then what of the purpose and reason you chose to be born into this particular realm if goals are not readily embraced as well? |
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