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BlueGreeanAngel
15-03-2014, 09:47 AM
Olaf in the movie Frozen said"Love is putting somebody else's needs before yours."
I was taught and trained in this way,just as many people.I have a collegue likes to give his blood to patients,each time he does that he feels so happy ,and he says also more energetic.
I did a lot things to my family,but i feel exhausted.my friend says it is because what i did never been appreciated by my parents.they even never said a simple 'thank u'.
I want to know how to get my energy back even if they blame me a lot?same time they r in sickness, so i still need to take care of them.
If there is a soul map,does it mean my energy is going a wrong direction so i feel exhausted?(sometimes i feel i even don't know who i m)
I also want to know if Love needs appreciation or something in return,it seems a low energy?
The universal energy keeps giving us love and light even if we dislike it sometimes, why we can't become the same?(we r from the Source)

sea-dove
17-06-2014, 12:38 PM
With love.. that includes loving oneself too, so you need to look after yourself. Our first responsibility is to love ourselves, it is only then will we have the energy and be able to really love others too and take care of them as well.

Love doesnt mean being a door mat for others or letting others disrespect you or treat you poorly (that isnt loving yourself). You are deserving too!